The important thing: not everyone will be a maker of disciples who make disciples – in the sense of seeing non-believers converted. I know it’s what we want, but the reality is, it just won’t happen. (We want everyone who hears the Gospel to come to Jesus, too, but that doesn’t happen either.) The biggest challenge is when no one makes disciples who make disciples; or, not enough. As an aside: In a sense, those who lead their families do make disciples who make disciples, at least hopefully: but it takes generations (because they raise up children, who raise up children). Another way of looking at it: in any movement, a single individual within the movement should know:

If you can chart that, you have 4 generations in view. Most of the time there will be significant overlap between family relationships and spiritual relationships. When 4 generations are reached quickly (e.g. in less than 2 years), a movement is probably happening.